Many of the parents whose children were abducted 10 days ago from a boarding school in Nigeria are terrified - they do not want to talk to the authorities or journalists in case of reprisals from the kidnappers.
If they hear you say anything about them, before you know it they'll come for you. They'll come to your house and take you into the bush, one of them told the BBC. For his safety the BBC is not identifying him and is calling him Aliyu.
His young son is one of more than 300 students abducted when armed men stormed the grounds of St Mary's Catholic School in Papiri village in the central state of Niger in the early hours of 21 November.
Some of the children taken are as young as five years old. About 250 are still reportedly missing, though state officials have said this number is exaggerated.
The incident is part of a recent wave of mass abductions in north and central Nigeria - some of which have been blamed on criminal gangs, known locally as bandits, who see kidnapping for ransom as a quick and easy way to make money.
Our village is remote, we are close to the bandits, explained Aliyu, whose son is still among the missing.
It's a three-hour drive to where they hide. We know where they are, but we can't go there ourselves, it's too dangerous.
He is desperate with worry - especially as vulnerable captives kept in forest hideouts have died during previous abductions, whether from sickness or because ransoms have not been paid.
I feel so bitter and my wife hasn't eaten for days… We're not happy at all. We need someone to help us to take action.
A few days before the Papiri kidnapping, 25 girls were taken from their school in Maga, which is 200 km (125 miles) further north in Kebbi state.
No group has claimed responsibility for these abductions, although the government suspects that jihadists may be involved. Analysts speculate that local informants could be facilitating these kidnappings, as they are impractical for outsiders to execute without local knowledge.
Some communities have responded to the persistent threat by negotiating peace deals with the criminals, suggesting a shift in strategy as they seek to protect themselves from further violence.
While individuals in the north-west have found temporary reprieve through these negotiations, insecurity still looms large over the region, as concerns arise that bandits may redirect their attention to wealthier areas further south.
The complexity of Nigeria's security situation continues to deepen, with both locals and analysts urging a more comprehensive approach to tackle the challenges posed by unpredictable criminal violence.
