As soon as Meri-Tuuli Auer saw the subject line in her junk folder, she knew it was no ordinary spam email. It contained her full name and her social security number - the unique code Finnish people use to access public services and banking.

The email revealed details about Auer that no one else should know, threatening that her therapy notes and personal information would be published online if a ransom wasn't paid in Bitcoin. This incident was part of a larger cyber attack on Vastaamo, a Finnish psychotherapy company, where a hacker had accessed and published private therapy records of around 33,000 patients.

Feeling trapped and ashamed, Auer initially closed herself off from society. The exposure of intimate details about personal struggles, including mental health issues and past traumas, became overwhelming.

The situation escalated into a national scandal, leading to an emergency response from Finnish authorities as patients feared their private confessions were now public knowledge. Eventually, the hacker was identified, arrested, and sentenced, but the psychological damage inflicted on victims remained enduring.

Facing her fears, Auer chose to be open about her experience, discussing her leaked records publicly and even documenting her journey in a book titled 'Everyone Gets to Know.' Through this process, she learned to cope with the humiliation and ultimately embraced her resilience, turning a harrowing experience into a story of triumph and advocacy against cybercrime and for mental health awareness.